lol hair is hair. don’t freak out about it. i do not completely shave my pubic hair. just not crazy about how it looks and i can pretty much be fine living my entire life without that incessant itching that goes along with it growing back in. i’ve waxed it all before, that tends to go much nicer. aesthetically i’m just not crazy about the hairless look on me or on anyone. that’s not to say i don’t do anything with it. i keep mine very well trimmed and well maintained thank you very much :)
you do have to take pride in your body don’t you?
as for guys, i really do think it depends on the guy. i’ve been very attracted to guys who’ve had lots of body hair, because it looked good on them and they could pull it off. i’ve also been turned WAY the hell off by other guys with too much body hair, because far from looking good it looked mangy or nasty on them. so it depends on the individual. and as long as you as an individual look good with whatever hair you’ve got then that’s probably what i’ll like.
hygiene is very much more important to me than the presence or absence of hair. so good hygiene being a must, and things such as hair, fingernails, and teeth being clean, affect my decision far more to either accepting or rejecting a guy (or girl..) as a possible partner.
hope i didn’t ramble too much and that this answered your question :3